From someone to nothing

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From the moment we're born, we're conditioned to strive — to become someone. But that "someone" is never fixed; it keeps evolving, shifting with time and expectations. We're taught to chase milestones: excel in school, get into a good college, land a prestigious job, marry well, raise a good family. The cycle appears endless.

Let’s say you achieve it all — academic success, a dream career, financial stability, a loving partner, a beautiful family, and even meaningful contributions to society. Then imagine fast-forwarding to your final moment — lying on your deathbed, with just one minute left. Suddenly, everything you ever earned or became — degrees, relationships, status, your passion, your identity — begins to fade into insignificance. In that moment, you realize: the pursuit was never about becoming something —All of it was only temporary - meant to disappear.

Life, it turns out, isn't a game of accumulation but of surrender. Not about gaining, but about losing — your possessions, your roles, your attachments, your very self: body, mind, ego, intellect, emotions, memory. Everything.

So perhaps the real journey is about learning how to let go — gracefully, consciously. Not clinging, not rejecting — just balanced. Neither too attached, nor too detached. The path is from something to nothing, from someone to no one. And maybe, in that emptiness, lies the deepest truth of who we really are.